It’s supposed to be a part of life, your sister getting married and moving away, but it feels like losing a part of you. I never cried on her wedding, it wasn’t till the next day when I was flying back to Dubai and saying goodbye to her at the airport that I realised that I was actually losing her. We would be in two different countries, in two different worlds, and it was basically an end to one phase of my life. I’m wondering how many parts of yourself you can lose before there’s nothing left?
This is the first time I saw my niece, she’s an absolute cutie (MashaAllah), but the though of her going away is piercing. I don’t know what I’m going to do. I really wish I could live in this moment forever. Keep her like this forever. Maybe the next time around she won’t even know who I am. I’m starting to realise a little bit why we always remain kids for our mothers, no matter how old you get. I feel like that about Imaan, and she’s just my niece.
Ri left today, sis will leave in a few days and so will Imaan. Life just sucks at times!!!
16 comments:
awwwwww...
iknow how much it aches honey and i sure hope it doesnt ache for too long and you meet em all again :)
very soon!
mwah
am home alone too :(
Ach by the time my nephew had started talking(naya naya) a little and walking and became all *fun*, i couldn't help but fall even more in love with him. When he left - infact when they left, I remember crying for six hours staright. It was eid the next day and I had swollen eyes.
This sucks. This feeling sucks
All I am trying to say is: Siras, ronay dhonay ke liay tayar ho jao kuriey!
Aww cuteness ... c'est la vie. It does sucks at times but it brings us moments of sheer joy too ... so often :)
and believe me even though kids can't retain the memory so long but the next time she'll meet you ... you two would be an instant hit again. It always happened with my nephews & niece :)
<3
Someone's going to need some Pyar Tissues pretty soon.
AD: Yea, inshaAllah. :)
Ubaid: Aww
Anushay: I'm afriad I'm going to be in the same situation! :(
Asma: Well, that's true too. :)
I sure hope so. :)
Anushay: Haha, apparently yes. :P
I know it sucks eh! I just *hate* saying goodbyes with pure passion. I remember when I was coming back from Pakistan, I cried for so long in the plane =( .. and then the depression mode starts ..
But Time heals all wounds ..
And guess what I am home alone too :D
Oh yea, definitely sucks! I've never been good at goodbyes.
But time doesn't really heal wounds does it, it just makes them less important.
I guess it's home alone day today :P
"You can be mad as a mad dog with the way things go; you can swear and curse the fates; but when it comes to the end you have to let go"- (The Curious Case of Benjamin Button)
It's a part of life yes.
I am not sure if you live with all your family and khandaan, but you know what sucks more? Being someone who says goodbye knowing that where you're going, you won't be seeing those wonderful warm smiles that are always ready to greet you whenever you pop up. Going away from your entire khandaan and your loved ones sucks. I remember last summer when I was in Karachi and it was time for me to come back to Toronto, my rona dhona started a week ahead of my departure. Then the plane was accompanied with sleeps and cries; and Toronto was also greeted with cries; and the 6 months that proceeded after were also accompanied with cries.
But, as Huda said, Time heals all wounds; it surely does. The next time she comes back, would come so fast, you wont even realize it.
:D
But it's as bad, when everybody else moves away and you're still there.
Well, I guess that's just life. :)
Have some gol gappas. People visit, people leave. they will visit again :D
you'll be fine ! :)
Make most of the time you have left with your sister and neice before they have to go.... She has a new home now, soon you will too and then you won't be alone =P haha -grin-
AJ: Gol gappas, okay I'll go looking for some. :)
Cavaliere: Ahan.
brok3n: I'm trying to make the most of it. :D
LOL! I guess. :P
Awwww. Just wait and you will see them again. You know, time flies :)
She's staying another whole month!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :D
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